All Carbed Out (and Nip It! follow-up)
What a great day! If you'll remember, today was my annual family reunion, and I had the pleasure of surprising folks with my new, fitter me! There were indeed dropped jaws, and many, many expressions of joy and pride.
And carbs. There were lots and lots of carbs.
Not to worry, as this was my splurge meal. I had a great workout with Trainer Kevin last night and plans for cardio for later this afternoon, so I dug in with relish. Well, not relish, literally, since there wasn't any on the table. There were some yummy sweet-dill pickles, though. :)
I skipped anything "normal" on the table. Things like green beans, ham, cheeses, breads--I have those frequently. I skipped the fried chicken because it was store-bought and NOT my Memaw's fried chicken. (Principle!) Instead I opted for lean roast pork, deviled eggs...and carbs: corn, baked beans, a dab of potato salad, and spaghetti. Not horrible, but definitely a splurge meal.
And then there were the desserts. My cousin had mentioned how she admired my willpower, but when she saw my dessert plate, she said, "I take it back."
I looked down at my thin (1/2"?) slice of caramel cake, my half-a-brownie, and my sliver of strawberry cake, and told her it WAS willpower, because that was about half of what I really wanted. :)
The hardest part of the day was trying to explain to people that I wasn't dieting, that I eat a healthy-ish diet 99% of the time with the occasional splurge. My parents, especially, kept asking me if such-and-such was on my diet. They just couldn't understand that EVERYTHING there was "on my diet." I could have any of those things any time I want, just not all in one meal. Not even all in one week. :)
Given the portions I ate, I would've probably been within my calorie count for the day without one or two of the desserts. I would've been out-of-balance on my carb:protein ratio, but that's what splurge meals are about. I hope I didn't get snippy with any of my "advisors", but I suspect I did. Sorry.
While it was fun to visit with family (most of whom I see at this one event each year), I was eager to get home and DO something. With all those carbs rushing through my system, my feet were practically itching to walk. And so I did.
I walked and walked and walked. Believe it or not, I walked FIVE MILES. All at once. Fast! I clocked in at 1:22:50, which even allowing for any erroneous mapmywalk mileage, means I walked something between a 15 and 16 minutes mile for FIVE MILES. I have never done that before! Maybe there's something to this carb-loading. LOL
At one point during the walk, I noticed my fingers were tingling and looking down, I could see that they were white and sausage-y. I don't know what that was about, but when I lifted my arms and started pumping them as I walked, the swelling and discoloration (decoloration?) was almost gone. They're fine now. If I opt for walking tomorrow, I will NOT be walking five miles. Maybe a 5k.
So I think the abundant carbs are gone now, but they sure were fun while they lasted! I'm back on plan and looking forward to a dismal weigh-in on Monday. :)
In response to excellent Nip It! comments, a little follow-up:
- Sagan Morrow and Nicole suggested tea as a snack replacement. (Sagan also suggested carrots--YUM!) I wish I liked tea. I've tried several flavors and it's just not doing anything for me. BUT you reminded me that I have some sugar-free cocoa (25 calories per cup) in the pantry, so I may have that the next time I'm feeling overly snacky.
- Pattie asked about any "busy hands" hobbies. Sadly, I have none. My main hobbies are reading and writing, both of which I need to do more of. Your question reminded me, though, that I have many "busy hands" projects around the house here, and a snack attack would the perfect time to accomplish those. (It would be nice to have my filing from the past...um, year or so complete, too!)
- tas asked about my hunger scale. While I'm certain I didn't invent the idea of the hunger scale, I can no longer remember the original source of the one I adapted for myself. Unfortunately, I can't find the index card I had it written on, but it was something along these lines:
Stage 1 - starving, legs jiggly, lightheaded
Stage 2 - major stomach rumbling
Stage 3 - "I could eat, but I'm okay."
Stage 4 - "I feel good."
Stage 5 - "I couldn't eat another bite."
Stage 6 - "I think I'm gonna hurl."
I also assigned "snack appropriateness testing" levels for stages 3-5 (mostly 4 and 5, because snacks are frequently okay in stage 3). I don't remember all the levels, but I know boredom, stress response, and Pavlov were in there somewhere. I'll keep looking for the card. Maybe it's in my box of filing. :)
Although yesterday morning's thoughts were frequently taken over by Barney's "Nip it!" voice, by afternoon I was able to convert it to something useful. I now hear my own voice, and it's saying:
Not
In
Plan!!
I am too corny for words sometimes. :)
I'm off to put my feet up! I hope you all had a super Saturday and are looking forward to an even better Sunday!
~
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11 Comments:
I'm glad to hear you had a great time. I know exactly what you mean by people asking if something is in your diet. I always say yes, I'm on a sea food diet. If I see food I can eat it!
I love the Not In Plan idea (and am so like you with the tea---to my chagrin as well. Im a hot choc woman--tea simply is not satiating to me).
off to start my day.
you? a BLOGGING MACHINE :)
have a great sunday.
Sounds like a great gathering! Glad you had such a good time. :)
I think splurge meals can be a very good idea and can go a long way towards helping us de-demonize food. (Is there a word for "de-demonize"?) I'm slowly learning that it's not food's fault that I'm overweight, so pointing fingers at brownies and crying, "Devil!" isn't the solution. :) Moderation is the solution and designated or controlled splurges can help teach moderation. Splurge in moderation, what?? Yes, because it's planned and waited for, and sometimes actively earned.
High five on the dropped jaws! :)
How nice that you were able to spend time with family and that they had such positive responses to your weight loss. That had to feel great. Sometimes I think we forget how much we've done, until we see a picture of our old selves, or see people we haven't seen in a long time.
Good job on the 5 mile walk! I wouldn't worry about the sausage fingers.
I had the same thing a few years ago when I did the Bay to Breakers in SF (which is actually today, oddly enough). It's a 7.5 mile walk/run/beerfest through the winding streets and hilly avenues of San Francisco. A great time because of all of the crazy costumes and the alcohol that so many people consume. As I was climbing (barely) the Hayes Ave. hill (which is practically 90 degrees straight up and down, I noticed my swollen fingers. It kind of freaked me out, but I chalked it up to water retention and my body wondering why we were exerting ourselves so much. It went away a couple of hours later.
I love your blog and your writing style, and have been reading the old archives to get the full scoop on your journey. Very impressive!!
it sounds like you enjoyed youself and stayed pretty much in plan for the most part. good for you for being patient and explaining it wasnt a diet. I find by the end of family events I am so exhausted about explaining my weight loss,etc. because they just dont get that Im not starving myself, not depriving myself, just eating what I want in moderation, and adding some healthier foods in that I never used to eat.
and thanks a lot for the suggestions you left on my blog..definitely going to try a few of those foods.
I love the tradition of family reunions. Although we never had one, my mother-in-law is the youngest of 26 children. Yep, you read right. Two consecutive wives; 13 children each. Her dad was 70 years old when she was born. Amazing stories every time we get around other family members.
I'm so proud of you for putting those people in their place when they bugged you about the food "being on your diet." Sounds to me like you did a great job, especially with the desserts.
Thanks for the NIP acronym. That is going to be helpful for me!!
Aren't the compliments wonderful!!
Food + Family often = overeating for me...I can't tell if your cousin's comment about willpower and "I take it back" was said sarcastically but with love, or in a mean way. I hope the former. Still nice job sticking to your guns but still enjoying the food~
Sounds like all in all you are doing fabulous!!!
Those who are successful realize this is not a diet, but a lifestyle change. Some get it, others don't.
As for the sausage fingers.... it's just fluid collecting because your heart is working harder to pump oxygenated blood to your body. Your hands, if hanging by your sides are below your heart and so will pool fluid. Try bending your arms to a 90 degree angle and them pumping them as you walk. I always imagined myself as a little choo choo train chugging along when I did this. Takes some getting used too, but I always felt like it added to my walking workouts.
Having lost about 25 pounds, I find that I all of a sudden have people who feel they need to worry about food for me. One lady in particular will always ask me "how many points does that have?" grrrr
So, if only to tick her off, I always plan for cake day (montly birthday cake at our office) and make sure I get my piece of cake. I hear her over there, "Oh no. I'm being good today." Then she will see me with my cake, savoring the cream cheese frosting and ask pointedly ask me about the points in front of my other coworkers. I always answer back with 6, 7, 9 or whatever I've judged it to be. I can see how mad it makes her for some unknown reason. But hey, pissing her off AND having cream cheese frosting? It don't get no better than that! :)
One thing I had noticed was that I was always the only one that was NOT eating cake - or maybe there'd be another fat girl also skipping cake. It just dawned on me about a month into weight watchers that the only people that avoid cake were the fat people. I was tired of being the fat girl with no cake, so I vowed to plan to enjoy my cake each time. I even get up in the front of the line (gasp!) instead of sneaking it off to my office later.
I don't know. I just thought that I wanted/needed to learn how to eat cake and still lose weight - and later not gain back weight. I want to feel like a normal healthy person. When I do, I make so much better choices.
Food Police = bad. Cake = good.
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