Making Lemonade
I'm becoming obsessed with a craving for Cheetos. Not obsessed enough to even think about trying this product, but it's clear I'm rapidly reaching a point at which I am going to have to have some cheesy goodness. Fried, not baked.
I will have them...and someday soon.
In contemplating the Cheetos dilemma, I realized that, over the past year, I have converted a formerly unhelpful tendency toward procrastination into a successful strategy (for me) for dealing with cravings. The proverbial making lemonade from lemons.
Or lemonade from Cheetos, if you will.
In the past when I thought about losing weight, many of my plans started with "Someday soon I'll..." You can complete the expression with any host of things: join a gym, go on A Diet, walk a hundred miles a day--uphill, etc. and so on.
And, of course, someday never came.
What I realized today is that I've been playing the "someday soon" game with cravings. Whenever a desire for something that's slightly (or more) on the other side of healthy, I've handled it by saying, "Someday soon, I'll have to figure out a way to work that into a meal." In most of those situations, as in the past, someday never came. The desire faded away. A very good thing, in this case.
There were (are) a few favorites, of course, that I did put thought and effort into seeing on my plate, even if rarely. When I wanted "real deal" pizza, I found a local restaurant that sold reasonably-sized pizza-by-the-slice. My desire for good old-fashioned southern barbecue led me to another local place that offers Barbecue Salad (I just order the dressing AND the meat on the side.) I pushed a craving for cheese dip away until the Christmas pot luck at the office, and then I had five taco chips with a healthy drizzle of dip.
I feel certain that had I indulged in these cravings at the exact moment I had them, I would have either (a) over-indulged, (b) experienced guilt, remorse, and/or shame for having "blown it", (c) both a and b. Deferring the cravings gave me time to think about (or forget about) it and work it into my plan in a relatively healthy way.
Kind of neat, huh? "Someday soon" used to be a curse; now it's a tool for managing my beloved splurgettes.
It's the same for another trait I have. I'm quite happy eating the same foods over and over and over. Not a good thing when those foods are nachos, pizza, cheeseburgerandfries, fishandchips, and Little Debbie snack cakes. But you can see the difference when the repetition becomes turkey, tuna, chicken, turkey, tuna, chicken, turkey, tuna, chicken, cheeseburger, turkey, tuna....well, you get the picture. It works out so much better this way, when the routine foods are composed of lean meats rather than fried and fresh fruit instead of calorie-dense (but oh-so-tasty!) snack cakes. :)
This line of thinking may partially explain why I've had success over the past year. I went with what is naturally part of my personality/lifestyle, but I changed the input.
But enough about me, I'm curious about you. Have you noticed any not-so-great habits or traits that are now working a little more in your favor? Think about it and let me know, here or your place. :)
Labels: Heathy(-ier) Eating, personal notes



17 Comments:
Thanks for the tip! I plan to try it myself. And, congrats on the weight loss!
Ooh, that's an interesting spin on making bad habits work for you! At the moment, I can't think of anything, but now I have something to think about. Thanks!! You're so smart!
great post! I find myself thinking the same way...if theres something I REALLY want and cant get out of my head, I have it and find a way to do it in a controlled way. I also eat a lot of the same foods too (usually make 1 new meal a week), and I also am not tired of most everything I eat and its wonderful to really ENJOY healthy food.
A thought provoking post for which I momentarily have no thoughts :)
Like I mentioned in a post, I could never do what Jared the Subway guy did...eat 2 subs each & EVERY day for almost a year. I CAN eat chicken, eggs & fish forever and that helps to eliminate decision making & keeps me in a groove.
I guess my perfectionism works for me with journalling my food intake everyday. It doesn't allow me NOT to journal & keep track of my points.
My stubbornness keeps me coming back to finish this losing weight business. I keep thinking I'm going to succeed despite personal history that says NO, YOU'RE NOT!
So I guess you did provoke me. Thanks for stirring up some brain matter for me.
I agree with Donna...interesting point of view.
Great post Cammy! If there is something I really want, I TRY not to give into it right then and there, as like you I would over-indulge, for sure. But I try to pick my moment instead. I'm going out on Fridays for dinner with friends (every Friday) so I kinda keep my indulgance for that meal. I still try not to go over board and make a good choice for my main meal, but I know it's going to be slightly off plan, and that's ok. I make my peace with that before we go and all is well.
Also when I crave chocolate, I'm not getting a mars bar or something like that, I try to get myself some really good quality chocolate, or a piece of chocolate cake.. if I have to eat unnecessary indulgance-calories, the food should be good quality at least ;) (no offense to mars-bar lovers!)
oooh. great tip and thought process.
for me I just have some and then I can move on-----I tried the IF I STILL CRAVE THIS TOMORROW I CAN HAVE IT tactic and (for me) 90% of the time it resulted in late night eating way too much of the aforementioned snack (read: oreos)
we are all the same and yet all so unique huh?
M.
Hrm...why IS it that when I need to go to the grocery store or the post office or somewhere boring, I will put it off forever, but when I want chips I'm across the street to the drugstore before the craving has even solidifed? This is much food for thought.
Cheetohs used to be my biggest craving; I fought that for so long it was awful. Now it's other stuff, but Cheetohs sound pretty good right now. :-)
Way to turn a negative into a positive. I need to put some thought into that and make that work for me, I have enough bad habits!
V.
Yes, yes, yes!
I am a firm believer in this approach, and it has worked well for me. When I tell people that I am never deprived, it's totally true. I eat whatever the &$%# I want, but it's that I have a different approach to the intake that makes it work. Of course, I am losing weight at a very slow pace, but it also means that I have a better chance at keeping it off, too. :)
You are totally awesome, lady.
Cheetos Lip Balm? Have you tried it? What will they think of next?
Great post. I think I'm there with ya sistah! I'm working to get those little cravinsg into the meals on a tiny basis when I ponder over them for a while too. (Wonder if they make Chip & Dip lip balm too?)
thats the epitome of finding what works for you. it might not work for everyone but it seems to be for you so great job on figuring yourself out like that.
is that cheetos glue? is it orange? im not entirely sure that i can im just confused as to who sat in a board room and thought, "THIS is the next step for cheetos. and gluestick!" and then he probably got a raise.
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Are you my long-lost twin? I have the same repetitive-eating thing; I could eat the same things day in and day out and not get tired of them. Super handy when its nutritious food!
And it wasn't until I read this post that I realized I've been unconsciously using the "someday" thing to my advantage too... at the movies I say, "next time I'll treat myself to popcorn" or when I go out to dinner, I say "next time I'll get that highcaloriehighfathighsugar dish". Thats really cool how we can work these bad habits into a good habit!
Snap! I do repetitive eating and delayed gratification too.
Somedays better than others mind you!
cheetos......it's been a long time since I had those......they use to be my pms drug of choice....crunchy cheetos and peanut butter cups.......it was a pg craving too.
As for cravings now, I choose water and just drink drink drink ;)
Just found your blog and love it! My WW leader says that she has issues with the "etos" food group - Cheetos, Doritos, etc...
A bad habit that's turned into a good thing for my weight loss - I'm overprotective of my car which means I part as far away from every other car as possible. Lots of walking!
Interesting thought process here, Cammy. I think you're right: a lot of times if we can put off whatever it is we crave, it goes away. If it keeps coming back, then we’re smart to find a way to work it into a meal - then let it go.
It's hard to think in positive terms on your question: all I come up with are the negative habits that aren’t serving me well! But I'll keep thinking on it...
"Have you noticed any not-so-great habits or traits that are now working a little more in your favor?"
Hmmm. Great question, Cammy. I'm already thinking about my answer. *grin*
Have you tried the baked Cheetos? My husband and I both like them BETTER than the fried ones. Even Ashlan feels the same way. They're NUMMY!!
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