Put a Block on Porlock
Anyone ever read Samuel Coleridge's poem, "Kubla Khan"? If I have, I don't remember it, but I'm fascinated by the story behind its composition. And my fascination means you suffer. That's not fair, is it?
According to Coleridge's notes, the poem came to him during a vivid dream (likely assisted by opium, to which he had an addiction) and consisted of several hundred lines. When he awoke he immediately began writing like crazy to capture the dream on paper, but he was interrupted after the the third stanza by "a person on business from Porlock." Returning to his poem an hour later, Coleridge discovered that he could no longer recall either the dream or the lines he had composed while he slept. It was all gone!
This "person on business from Porlock" has never been identified, nor has the reason for his visit, but he has come to symbolize the way life can sometimes trample visionary genius.
Oh, I hear you: What in the hell does this Porlock's visit have to do with weight loss?
Nothing really...unless you liken it to the beginning of your weight loss/fitness plan. It's all very clear exactly what you want to achieve. You can see it, hear it, taste it, feel it--your future success is so vivid in your mind that it has practically already happened.
Time passes and you're living the dream, making it happen, seeing the results in front of you...
And then some wacko like Porlock knocks on your door.
He may come in the form of an unsupportive friend or family member. Or maybe he's not a person at all, but an event--a family celebration, a holiday, or a vacation that sends you off your plan completely.
Your Porlock may be the clock that you can't wrestle into coughing up an extra hour for your exercise, or the bakery on the corner with all its tempting delights.
Or maybe you're your own Porlock, interrupting your vision and getting in your own way.
The trick is to identify this Porlock's knock and DON'T ANSWER THE DOOR. Know that he's out there, ready to visit at any moment, and develop a strategy for dealing with him effectively.
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Porlock has been quiet lately around here, thank goodness. In previous fitness attempts, stressful situations such as family illness or work crises would send me to the nearest drive-through. Now, I head to the gym or lace up my walking shoes instead.
Porlock can't interrupt me if he can't catch me. :)
But I still know he's out there, wandering the streets. Waiting.
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Who or what is your Porlock? And what can you do to stay on track despite the loud and insistent knocking?
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18 Comments:
I'm speechless ... ok almost.
Cammy, you've outdone yourself with this post.
Truly.
Amazing writing.
Thought provoking.
Inspiring.
I think it's so important to plan for the turbulence that is real life. You know it's going to happen and if you know this and plan in advance, you can get through without a total derailment.
Great post!
Unfortunately I let porlock interrupt everything about my life. I'm easily distracted, which I'm working on, but it's a matter of changing a deeply ingrained habit.
Go Away, Porlock!
Vee at www.veegettinghealthy.blogspot.com
Referred to you by Karen/Fitcetera. Awesome post!! I'm pretty sure I have several Porlocks.
Porlocks abound in my life!! I have the attention span of a gnat, so I'm easily distracted by just about anything. Makes staying on task more difficult, I can tell you that.
Great post.
Excellent post Cammy, great job of writing, as always. Living in the moment, my Porlock right now is my own conscience going over the last couple of days my physically demanding gardening has left my body sore, so I'm rationalizing that I deserve a Hazelnut Breve Latte this morning at the Starbucks around the corner. Damn their locations anyway! Always one around. Well, I do have to go have new tires put on this morning at 9am, so no use in getting out now anyway. Whew! Linda
Brilliant writing there. Now, I won't go reading a damn poem...the stories behind them are usually more engaging than the actual poems.
So, I like have a whole congregation of Jehovah's Witnesses trying to come in my doors and windows like hungry zombies.
Absolutely amazing post!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
My Porlock has changed along the way but right now it is "the change of life" hormones. I can handle not resorting to food thru the family issues, vacations, non supportive people, get togethers & all that. I am past that... BUT I have never seen anything like the change of life hormones to test me! So far I am hanging in there but I use every trick in the book to walk away from the food when those hormones on steroids call! As for my hubby, he may not survive this!!! Driving him crazy! :-)
Sometimes I feel as though people like me better when I'm unhealthy. That hurts. And I have yet to find a way to deal with it.
I've also given this Porlock fellow far too much of my time and attention. I'm going to have to handle him like I handle telemarketers these days - I tell them that I don't conduct business over the phone and they should send me a letter. Nobody bothers, so I'm good!
Great post, Cammy!
What an excellent post! And interesting too. Wow!
Porlock's been knocking the last few weeks bringing dessert. I've actually started making low fat/low cal/primal desserts to manage. That's completely shocking for me - I don't usually skimp on dessert.
I love this. And it was exactly what I needed to hear! Just the other day I told someone that I was worried about waking up one morning and not wanting to do any of this "healthy stuff" any more.
I'm sick of Porlock's!
What a fantastic post - thank you!
That was just.. wow what an inspirational post and it is totally related!!! And a delight to read also.
:-) As usual.
Hmm, I guess this Porlock might be my newest friend, who always seems to want something like those nasty bacon-wrapped hot dogs, or ice cream from the grocery, and always wants me to go and get some with her. Fortunately she's giving up, as I'm not so into it, and have not indulged her yet.
OMG Cammy I have to many Porlock to go into in one comment. Today it is a part time (21 year old) clerk that thinks she knows more than her boss (me) does and assumes she is in a position to advise me. UGH!!!!!!! I actually had to put on my sneakers and take a walk around campus to keep from flying into her. But, I didn't drop any money in a vending machine so that is a plus. I keep remembering BlogHer is next week. HA!
i am my own worst Porlock. I've never heard this story, and the analogy is brilliant. Thank you.
in answer to the second part of your question.. my best defense is to have a plan.. and just commit, commit, commit.. having accountability really helps too.
thanks for this.
Damn those Porlockians!
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