Saluting SparkPeople

I think I might be suffering a bit of car-lag from my trip. Either that, or the never-ending rain we’ve had over the past few days, have left me feeling sloggy and dull.

Despite the meh!, I am pleased to say that this has been one of the smoothest returns to Cammy-normal I’ve had yet! Better than most, and I think that’s because I had already planned to journal my food in Sparkpeople for the month of May as a kind of nod to my sixth Spark-oversery.

Back in 2007, when I was first learning how to compose healthier meals, I used the meal tracker in SP to figure it all out. Then I got caught up in the silly fun of earning points for virtual trophies which helped me build momentum. Before I knew it, I’d built all sorts of healthier habits, dropping pounds left and right, and enjoying every minute of it!

So thank you, SparkPeople, for helping me find my way…and for helping with resuming my new, healthier habits in full after an indulgent vacation! (I’d actually forgotten how much fun detail tracking can be! Motivational, too! :) )

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Not much going on in my world this weekend, certainly no cake. :( We’re having a cool snap (37° tonight!) and more rain, so if you’re looking for me, you’ll likely find me at home or at the gym. Or writing my AIM post for Monday. :)

What are you doing this weekend? I hope it’s something more fun than shivering!



Need a Time Out? I Do.

What an emotional sledgehammer of a week! And I don’t even live anywhere near Boston, MA or West, TX. My heart goes out to those folks…and people who live in countries where these types of events are a common occurrence. It boggles my mind.

Given my distance and inability to do anything other than hope for resolution and healing soon, I’m grateful for the ability to take periodic time outs here and there for decompression and, in a few lucky moments, a little levity.

Last night, my friend Laura posted a link to a fun age-evaluation-type quiz from Harvard. (Yes, I used ‘Harvard’ and ‘fun’ in the same sentence!) Basically, you click on some red dots and from that, the application takes a guess at your age.

Here’s what my circle-clicking revealed:

age test results from quiz (31)

You see why I liked it so much! LOL I lost 23 years in about a minute!

If you’re needing a wee break from things, give it a whirl and let us know your results.

The Vision Lab at Harvard also has other fun tests at Test My Brain. I just scored “above average” on recognizing famous faces, but I’m hanging my head at some of the ones I missed.

With that, I think I’ll combine brevity with the levity and leave you to your weekend. May we all find some joy sparkles in it!



Leaning on Other People’s Wisdom

boston with heart and candleLike many people, I’ve been wandering around in a daze this week. The horrific evil that occurred in Boston has consumed my thoughts but not produced any words worth writing. And so I’ve been still. Thinking, listening, waiting for the sparkles of joy that I knew would shine through eventually.

There were some amazing moments on Monday, people running toward the carnage to provide help and comfort. Boston residents opening their homes to visitors who weren’t able to get to their hotels or who needed to stay near one of the hospitals. Runners who crossed the finished line…and then kept running to area hospitals to donate blood.

In the midst of the heartache and devastation, these moments of help and comfort reminded me of the Mister Rogers quote so many people are leaning on in these hours:

“When I was a boy and I would see scary things in the news, my mother would say to me, ‘Look for the helpers. You will always find people who are helping.”

The helpers show us that there is hope. (Slate has a video of Mister Rogers expounding on this message. I find his voice and manner comforting in a way the printed word doesn’t quite reach.)

Patton Oswalt‘s short essay also gave me comfort, especially these words:

“The good outnumber you, and we always will.”

A reminder that evil isn’t everywhere, not “even a fraction of a fraction of a fraction of a percent of the population on this planet”.

Business Insider shared 13 Examples of People Being Awesome After the Attack on the Boston Marathon and 9 Brilliant Tributes to Boston from Around the Universe.

More helpers, more hope.

And finally, today I saw Stephen Colbert’s “tribute” to the people of Boston and the marathoners:

It felt good to laugh. Even better, I felt the tiny sparkles of joy.

On Monday afternoon and again this morning, I paid my tiny tribute to the runners of the Boston Marathon with a few of my very brief “sprints”. I’m not a runner, but I wanted to do something. Along the way I figured out how to pay tribute to the spectators (MY people) who were injured or killed on Monday. On December 7th, I plan to be out bright and early at the Memphis Marathon to clap and cheer for the runners. And I’ll do it joyfully and with great enthusiasm in honor of those who had the pleasure taken from them.

How are YOU holding up?



Your Weekly Reader, Including a Personality Test

Anyone remember the Weekly Reader from elementary school days? Or Highlights magazine? I loved those magazines! And the “Look-it-Up Club”…such happy memories.

But I digress…

First off, I must apologize for the absence of Rock Star tributes this week. I’m a bit behind in my reading and I basically have no idea who’s done what. I’ll get back on track next week, I hope. Meanwhile, feel free to nominate YOURSELF for the award. I know you did something awesome this week. You always do!

I’ve been positively ROCKING my exercise lately (more on that next week), but I tell you, it’s a good thing I got my gym workout in early this morning or I might have suffered a rock-free day. We’ve regressed a bit in our Springness and are having a cold and dreary spell that has me feeling sloggy and blech! (This is more mental than physical.) I’m reasonably certain that if a trip to the gym was still on my to-do list for today, I’d be trying everything I could think of to convince myself to avoid it, and I’d probably be successful.

In the event you are opting to stay in, or having it forced upon you by heaps of snow, and are looking for some interesting reading, here are a few items from my soon-to-be-defunct Google reader:

10 Reasons Why You’re Enough Just the Way You Are [Dumb Little Man]
Sneak peak: “Everyone’s a work­ in ­progress: Nobody’s perfect including yourself so stop putting so much pressure on yourself to be so.”

There’s a reason I listed this at the top. Each and every point was a gem, in my book.

20 Great Body Weight Exercises (and Why You Should Do Them) [Wisebread]
Sneak Peek: “[I'd] venture to say that being able to lift your own body weight — whether with your arms, your legs, or your core — is an important life skill. What better, more basic measure of fitness could there be? The best part of it is that most body weight exercises require little or no equipment of any kind, which means you can practice them anytime, anywhere.”

No reason to go to the gym at all with this comprehensive list of body weight exercises. If I hadn’t already worked out today (and have the jangly muscles to prove it), I’d be working through at least a few exercises from each group.

Or if I hadn’t been able to muster up the motivation for even that, according to the following article, I might have gotten enough of a workout just by taking care of a few household chores.

Stay Fit Without Ever Visiting the Gym [Yahoo Shine]
Sneak Peek: “Researchers from Oregon State University evaluated a federal survey of more than 6,000 American adults and their physical activity levels. All participants wore accelerometers to track their movement throughout the day. Part of the group took part in structured gym workouts, while the others simply stayed active throughout the day by doing simple chores around the house and running errands. After four consecutive days of wearing the device for at least 10 hours a day, the results were surprising: Small bouts of activity-even just one- and two-minute increments totaling 30 minutes per day-were deemed just as beneficial as longer bouts of exercise at the gym or elsewhere.”

The article doesn’t suggest giving up regular, or more vigorous, workouts for more comprehensive health benefits, but it supports the notion that virtually all movement is beneficial. I think many of us don’t realize (and don’t give ourselves credit for) how much we do every day just managing our life tasks.

Finally, here’s a fun little thing I found via MakeUseOf, a personality-type assessor based on your Facebook likes. I was up to the challenge (it was that or scrape wallpaper off the kitchen walls), and here’s what they had to say about me:

personality test from youarewhatyoulike.com

My first thought was that 3-out-of-5 wasn’t bad. They had the Openness, Stability, and Agreeableness parts right, but on first glance the other two seemed off. Further checking, though, revealed that their version of “well-organized” included planning, persistence, and reliability. They weren’t looking at my disheveled kitchen after all. :) As for extraversion, they blew it big time on that one. I do have some social anxiety, but I generally ignore it in favor of exchanging life stories with pretty much every one I meet. LOL

So, in the end, they were 4-for-5. Not bad for an unscientific, but fun, little “test”. (If you take the test, let us know how it worked for you. Unless you’re shy and reserved like me. LOL)

Happy Weekend, everyone! If you’re looking for me, I’ll be hanging around updating my FB likes, scraping wallpaper, catching up on my reader, and watching my March Madness bracket go up in flames. (Next year, no picking teams based on prior year grudges and/or team colors!)

What are you up to this weekend?



Reader Weigh-In: Asking for Help

Did you watch Brené Brown on Oprah yesterday? I did and found it to be a very informative, enlightening, and powerful discussion of vulnerability, joy, gratitude, and a whole host of other issues. The video will be up all week, so if you can find 40 minutes or so, I really do think it will be worth the time investment.

please help meOne of the topics discussed was asking for help. As you might expect, my thoughts went to weight management and why it’s so difficult for many of us to seek out support, whether it’s from friends, family, co-workers, or all of the above. I think Brené Brown is on to something with the vulnerability factor.

Here’s what I’m thinking: Many of us who have had difficulties managing our weight already feel judged, to some degree, by those around us. In asking for help and/or support with weight loss from the people with whom we interact daily, we feel even more exposed and are fearful of being seen as weak or incompetent when we veer from plan. In a way, we equate asking for help with asking for judgement, when that’s not what we want at all.

Complicating matters, we sometimes don’t know what we need in the way of support. It’s one thing to ask for someone to remind you when you’re reaching for the snack jar and another thing entirely to receive that reminder. (Or maybe I’m just projecting my own grouchiness in that regard.) So we ask folks to back off and then we feel adrift and unsupported. Vulnerable. And the people who care about us and want to help us are likely feeling vulnerable, too, and hesitant to offer help in the future. So now we’re all just one big unhappy wad of vulnerability.

What if we identified what help we needed and then, as Brené Brown says, “leaned into vulnerability” to express that to others.

Will you listen to me when I’m struggling?

Will you offer suggestions when I ask for them?

Will you let me find my way, MY way?

Whatever needs we have, we first have to know them and then express them in a calm, honest, and respectful exchange, and then keep the lines open so that when those needs change, that can be communicated (calmly) as well. Yes, there’s vulnerability involved, but it’s entirely possible (probable, even) that it will lead to joy.

I am very fortunate in that I have had tremendous support throughout my weight management adventures, both here on the blog and in my everyday life, and I’m so grateful for it. Even the annoying well-intentioned, “Is that on your diet?” is appreciated, because I know it comes from a place of love or caring. (I’ve gotten pretty good at the internal eye roll. :) )(At least, I hope it’s internal.)

But these are just my ponderings. I really wanted to get YOUR input. Do you get the support or help you need with your weight issues? Do you know what you need? Is there anything I can do to help you?